A Memoir for the Modern Mom
My Journey Through Love and Motherhood After 40
Reclaim your identity, your love life, and your joy. A candid guide for single moms navigating dating, career, and self-discovery after 40.
"I cancelled a date because of a science project. Then I realized I deserved both."
A single mother of three amazing daughters, Nadine knows the beautiful chaos of balancing career, motherhood, and the search for love after 40. As a Senior Business Analyst in government health systems, she's learned that the same skills that make her successful at work—strategy, patience, and knowing her worth—apply to dating too.
Sound Familiar?
Between school pickups, work deadlines, and bedtime routines, when exactly are you supposed to date?
You're "Mom" 24/7. But who were you before? And who do you want to become now?
Swiping feels foreign. Flirting feels rusty. And the "rules" have completely changed since you last dated.
Every minute spent on yourself feels stolen from your kids. The mom guilt is relentless.
Divorce, kids, stretch marks, career demands—you wonder if anyone could handle your "complicated" life.
Society has opinions about single moms dating. You feel the side-eyes and hear the whispers.
"I've been there. In the chaos. In the guilt. In the loneliness. This book is the friend I wish I'd had."
The Transformation
Reclaim the woman you've always been—and the love you deserve.
Remember the vibrant woman you were before motherhood—and integrate all your roles into one confident you.
Learn that self-care isn't selfish—it's survival. Protect your time, energy, and peace.
Flirt authentically, communicate your needs, and attract partners who value the real you.
Your past experiences aren't liabilities—they're assets that make you a better partner.
Harmonize career, parenting, and romance without burning out or losing yourself.
Show your children what a whole, fulfilled woman looks like—one who values herself.
Inside the Book
Honest stories, hard-won wisdom, and practical insights from a mom who gets it.
Candid reflections on the emotional and logistical gymnastics of dating while raising kids of all ages.
Why self-care isn't selfish—it's survival. Practical strategies for reclaiming time just for you.
Understanding the profound difference—and how embracing solitude leads to better dating choices.
Modern flirting that prioritizes authenticity and humor over games and manipulation.
A powerful reframe: Your experiences aren't liabilities—they're wisdom that attracts mature love.
Moving beyond fairytale "soulmate" myths to build real relationships based on respect and growth.
How to integrate career, motherhood, and dating—and discover skills from one area enhance the others.
Is This Book For You?
This book is NOT for: Those who think dating should be your whole identity, or that a relationship will "complete" you. This is about adding love to an already whole life.
Words to Live By
"I cancelled a date because of a science project. Then I realized I deserved both."
— Nadine Wright
"If you don't value your time and energy, no one else will."
— Nadine Wright
"I wasn't lonely. I was just alone. And there was a world of difference between the two."
— Nadine Wright
"Your happiness matters not only for you, but also for your children. They learn how to value themselves by watching how you value yourself."
— Nadine Wright
Meet the Author
Nadine Wright is a single mother of three daughters—one in college, one in high school, and one in elementary school. She knows firsthand the beautiful chaos of raising kids across different life stages while navigating her own journey of self-discovery.
In her forties and post-divorce, Nadine has rebuilt her life with intention. As a Senior Business Analyst and Informatics Specialist working in government health systems, she's proven that career pivots and reinvention are possible at any age. Her analytical mind and strategic approach to work have surprisingly informed her approach to dating—knowing her worth, setting boundaries, and seeking genuine connection.
When she's not working or mom-ing, you'll find Nadine enjoying murder mysteries, savoring spicy food, or dreaming about her next venture (a podcast is in the works!). She shares her home with two miniature schnauzers and a commitment to showing her daughters what a whole, fulfilling life looks like.
"You don't find self-worth in someone else's hands; you remember it in your own."
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It's time to stop choosing between them.
Have Questions?
Not at all! While Nadine shares her post-divorce journey, this book is for any single mother navigating dating after 40—whether you're divorced, widowed, or have simply been focused on your kids. The themes of identity, self-worth, and balance are universal.
Absolutely! Much of this book is about rediscovering yourself, setting boundaries, and building a fulfilling life—with or without a partner. Dating is just one piece. Many readers find the self-discovery chapters most valuable.
It's both! Nadine shares honest, relatable stories from her own journey while weaving in practical wisdom and insights. You'll laugh, you'll nod along, and you'll walk away with real strategies you can use.
The book is approximately 200 pages—perfect for busy moms! You can read it during nap times, in waiting rooms, or before bed. Each chapter stands alone, so you can pick it up and put it down as life allows.
Yes! One of Nadine's core messages is that your children learn to value themselves by watching how you value yourself. By prioritizing your happiness and modeling healthy self-worth, you're teaching them invaluable life lessons.